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~Bedroom Tip #50~ Snow & Joe

Buenos días amigos de amor indulgente ~ Good Morning Love Indulgent Friends

Going from one temperature extreme to another in a matter of seconds produces a definite sensory overload in the brain. Add that to the fact that you'll be stimulating the most sensitive area of your woman's body and you've got the makings of a real winner.

Here's What You Need:

One cup of crushed ice. One cup of hot (not scalding) coffee. If you don't like coffee, use tea or water.

Here's How You Do It:

Get your woman naked. Have her lie on her back with her knees bent and legs slightly apart.

Take a full sip of coffee and swirl it around your mouth for about fifteen seconds. Swallow the coffee and begin to pleasure your woman orally for thirty seconds or so.

Now take a mouthful of crushed ice and hold it in your mouth for fifteen seconds. Resume your oral pleasuring technique for another thirty seconds.

Keep alternating between the hot and cold stimulants until your woman erupts in a mind-blowing orgasm.

Although they say coffee will keep you up all night, pouring it on your penis is not advised.

Until the next time "Descubre Que La Lúdica ~ (Discover The Playful You)

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~Bedroom Tip #49~ The Vineyard's Mist

Buenos días amigos de amor indulgente ~ Good Morning Love Indulgent Friends

Any guy can dribble a little wine on a woman and lap it off like a Schnauzer. You're going to put a new twist on things.

This technique is best when it's done outside. Find a spot where the two of you can have a (very) secluded picnic.

Here's What You Need:

One bottle of wine (the sweeter, the better). One new spray bottle (DO NOT use a bottle that's ever had cleaning products or insecticide in it).

Here's How You Do It:

Take your brand new spray bottle and rinse it thoroughly. Fill the bottle with wine and adjust the nozzle until it produces the finest mist possible.

Show your woman the spray bottle. Demonstrate by spraying a little wine into her open mouth.

Now give her a quick spurt on the side of her neck. Don't lick it off with a flat tongue; instead, open your mouth wide and draw the wine in with your lips. After that, you can use your tongue to collect any of the excess.

Get your woman topless. Use the same technique on each of her breasts. Then, move down to her stomach and belly button.

If she's still got her pants on, get them off of her. Now spray her calves and follow up with your mouth. Now do her inner thighs. Finally, give your woman's vagina a few pumps of the bottle and lovingly take in every delectable drop.

Remember: "goodness echoes from the canyon."

Until the next time "Descubre Que La Lúdica ~ (Discover The Playful You)

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~Bedroom Tip #48~ Popsiclingus

Buenos días amigos de amor indulgente ~ Good Morning Love Indulgent Friends

There's no more satisfying treat on a hot, summer day that a nice, cold popsicle. We've heard that some people actually eat them, too.

Here's What You Need:

One popsicle (your choice of flavor).

Here's How You Do It:

Get your woman naked. Have her lie on her back with her knees bent and legs slightly apart.

Hold the popsicle by the stick and glide it along her breasts, down her stomach and across her bikini line. Go slowly, so that some of the popsicle melts against her warm, soft skin.

Using your mouth and tongue, remove the popsicle juice from your woman's body. Now it's time to move to a more sensitive area.

Touch the tip of the popsicle to your woman's vagina. Run it up and down the lips, letting the melted juice trickle down the warm folds of skin.

At this point, you might be thinking about inserting the popsicle. This is a judgment call on your part, and matter of personal preference on hers. If you think she might find it pleasurable, slowly insert just the tip of the popsicle and gauge her reaction. If your woman enjoys this, turn your wrist back and forth, rotating the popsicle that's barely inside her vagina.

Now use your tongue. Start by licking away the juice from the lips of your woman's vagina. Hold the popsicle just above the clitoris and let the juice run down. Again, lick away the juice.

Continue until "I scream, you scream, we all scream for ice cream!"

Until the next time "Descubre Que La Lúdica ~ (Discover The Playful You)

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~Bedroom Tip #47~ The Pearl Escalator

Buenos días amigos de amor indulgente ~ Good Morning Love Indulgent Friends

The soft, smooth texture of a pearl is a perfect complement to a woman's skin. This technique brings the two together in a way she'll never forget.

Here's What You Need:

One pearl necklace.

Here's How You Do It:

Get your woman naked. Have her lie on her back with her knees bent and legs open wide. Sit down in between your woman's legs.

Position the fingers and thumb of one of your hands as if giving the "thumbs up" sign. Hang the pearls off the tip of your thumb.

Now press your thumb against her vagina, just below the clitoris. Use your other hand to pull the strand around your thumb up towards her stomach. As you're doing this, each pearl should be brushing and stimulating your woman's clitoris.

Once you've pulled all the slack from the strand, reach down and pull it again. The pearls will simply loop back around, running under your thumb and over your woman's clitoris again and again.

It's up to you to determine how fast or slow you should pull the pearls. Once you find the right speed, you will bring your woman to orgasm fairly quickly.

Also, be forewarned that your woman will probably insist real pearls produce a more intense orgasm than imitation. She undoubtedly knows exactly where you can buy some, too.

Until the next time "Descubre Que La Lúdica ~ (Discover The Playful You)

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~Bedroom Tip #46~ Ping Me A Love Pong

Buenos días amigos de amor indulgente ~ Good Morning Love Indulgent Friends

There are a lot of women who are intrigued by the idea of being tied up. But when it comes to actually trying it, they get cold feet. This is a great little game that gives your woman a sense of being restrained. In reality, though, she can get up and end it whenever she wants.

Here's What You Need:

One ping pong ball.

Here's How You Do It:

Get your woman naked. Have her lie on her back in the middle of the bed with her knees bent and legs slightly apart.

Place the ping pong ball in her navel. Tell your woman that she must not let the ball roll onto the bed. If she does: "game over."

Now it's up to you to do whatever it takes to make her writhe and squirm with pleasure (this would probably include some gentle flicks of the tongue around her nipples and breasts, as well as some serious oral pleasuring).

Keep going until either the ping pong ball rolls out or your woman erupts in an earth-shattering orgasm.

Two things to remember here:

1. If the ball rolls out momentarily and then comes to rest back in her navel, you have to keep going.

2. No fair rocking the bed in an effort to get the ball to roll out just because your jaw is tired.

Until the next time "Descubre Que La Lúdica ~ (Discover The Playful You)

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~Bedroom Tip #45~ Boxing The Compass

Buenos días amigos de amor indulgente ~ Good Morning Love Indulgent Friends

Did you know that almost every woman is more sensitive on one side of her clitoris than the other? You do now. So what are you going to do about it?

Here's a great technique that will let you easily determine which is your woman's "sensitive side" so you can pleasure her accordingly.

Here's What You Need:

Just the two of you.

Here's How You Do It:

Get your woman naked. Have her lie on her back with her knees bent and legs slightly apart.

You're eventually going to position your tongue above her clitoris, but take your time. Let your tongue glide up her legs, over the inner thighs, around the bikini line and so on. Now ease on over to your woman's special place.

Touch your tongue just above the clitoris (the 12 o'clock position). Now bring it down and to the left in a half-circle. The motion should resemble an open parenthesis. You should now be touching the delicate skin beneath the clitoris (the 6 o'clock position). Run your tongue back up in a half-circle, retracing the previous movement. Repeat the half-circle motion.

After you've stimulated the left side for about thirty seconds, switch to the right. Now your motion should resemble a closed parenthesis. Continue for about thirty seconds, then add some circular tongue motions.

Judging by your woman's reaction, you'll soon know which side should be receiving most of your attention. Once you know, though, don't neglect the other side.

Until the next time "Descubre Que La Lúdica ~ (Discover The Playful You)

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~Bedroom Tip #44~ The Satin Cylinder

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It's not the kind of thing one man would admit to another, but satin really does feel good against your skin. Imagine what it must feel like to a woman's most delicate, sensitive bit of skin.

Here's What You Need:

One satin nightshirt. Five bath towels. Two shoelaces.

Here's How You Do It:

Lay the first towel on the floor and roll it up length-wise. Now take the second towel and roll it tightly around the first. Continue until all five towels are rolled into one, tight bundle.

Wrap the satin nightshirt around the towel bundle. Tie the shoelaces around the bundle, about a quarter of the way from each end. The bundle should now resemble a small, satin-covered version of a rolled- up sleeping bag.

Get your woman naked. Now have her kneel down on all fours and straddle the satin bundle.

Enter your woman from behind. Have her spread her knees outward, lowering herself towards the bundle. Her clitoris should just barely touch the satin.

Make love. Each thrust from you will cause her to brush against the satin. The added stimulation she receives from the smooth material will often result in one or more powerful orgasms.

This technique assumes that your five bath towels are reasonably thick. If you do it at a motel, you'll probably need thirty.

Until the next time "Descubre Que La Lúdica ~ (Discover The Playful You)

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~Bedroom Tip #43~ Pop Rotica

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It seems like guys, more than women, have a problem with laughter in the bedroom. Sex with someone you love is supposed to be fun, right? So get over it.

When you perform this technique, the two of you can't help but laugh your way through it. Between the sound and the tingling sensation, it feels both great and funny at the same time.

Here's What You Need:

One bag of "exploding" candy.

Here's How You Do It:

Get your woman naked. Have her lie on her back with her knees bent and legs slightly apart.

Open the bag of "exploding" candy and sprinkle a generous amount on the tip your tongue.

Press your candy-filled tongue against the bottom of your woman's vagina and lick upwards to the clitoris. Your tongue should leave behind a trail of candy bits, activated and ready to explode.

Pleasure your woman orally, making sure your mouth is wet enough to reactivate the candy. You may want to have glass of water nearby. If you do, take an occasional sip to wet your mouth. It doesn't take much to get these things to explode.

Continue your oral pleasuring. Reapply the candy as needed. It won't be long before your woman is in the throes of one of the most enjoyable orgasms she's ever had.

Until the next time "Descubre Que La Lúdica ~ (Discover The Playful You)

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~Bedroom Tip #42~Alpha-lingus

Buenos días amigos de amor indulgente ~ Good Morning Love Indulgent Friends

This technique has been around for years. It enjoyed a resurgence in popularity in the late '80's, thanks to comedian Sam Kinison, who described it as part of his live stage show. Sam insisted that the best letter is capital "T." Now you be the judge.

Here's What You Need:

Just you and your tongue.

Here's How You Do It:

Get your woman naked. Have her lie on her back with her knees bent and legs slightly apart.

Position your mouth in front of her vagina and begin to pleasure her orally. As you're doing this, lick the alphabet on and around the clitoris.

Do all the capital letters first, then switch to lower case.

Watch your woman's reactions to determine which letters she likes best. After awhile, you can just do those (t's great when her favorite letters actually spell a word).

The Hawaiian alphabet only has twelve letters. If you happen to be a native Hawaiian, that puts you at a distinct disadvantage when performing this technique -- or trying to get on "Wheel Of Fortune."

Until the next time "Descubre Que La Lúdica ~ (Discover The Playful You)

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