~Bedroom Tip #37~ Cotton Can-delight

Buenos días amigos de amor indulgente ~ Good Morning Love Indulgent Friends

You've probably awakened many mornings and realized that "the circus

was in town." Now's your chance to give your woman a special treat

straight from under the big top.

Here's What You Need:

One cone of cotton candy.

Here's How You Do It:

Get your woman naked. Have lie on her back with her knees bent and

legs slightly apart.

Take the cotton candy and run it along the length of your woman's body.

Brush it against her face and let her enjoy both the smell and feel of it.

Break off a small piece of cotton candy and place it on the tip of your

extended tongue. Give your woman a deep, long, open-mouthed kiss.

Break off another piece and place it on your tongue. Press it to one of

your woman's nipples, then surround it with your mouth. As you close

your mouth, the cotton candy will dissolve. Gently suck the melted candy

from her nipple. Repeat with the other nipple.

Put another piece of cotton candy on your tongue and, this time, press it

to your woman's vagina. Let the combined moisture dissolve the cotton

candy in a sugary, tangy nectar.

Pleasure your woman orally, adding extra cotton candy as needed.

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~Bedroom Tip #36~ Aphrodite's Ladder

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If you've ever made love on a set of stairs, you're already aware of some

of the incredible positions you can come up with. Here's a romantic

technique that guarantees the two of you will never walk up that

particular flight the same way again.

Here's What You Need:

One flight of stairs.

Here's How You Do It:

Get your woman naked. You, too.

Have your woman sit on the second stair from the bottom (this may vary

depending on your respective heights, but the second stair usually works

best).

You remain standing at the bottom of the staircase. Lean forward and

place your hands on either side of your woman, like you're doing an

inclined push-up.

Prepare to enter you woman. Before you do, though, you must tell her

the following:

"On each of these steps is one of the reasons that I love you. Whenever

you like, move up another step and I will give you another reason. I love

you because..." and then give her your first reason.

Now you may enter your woman. After about thirty seconds, she's going

to push herself up to the next step. When she does, you must give her

your next reason. Then you may take a step up, enter her again and

continue.

Your woman can have as many orgasms as she likes, but YOU must wait

until she is perched at the top of the staircase before you can have yours.

Only then have you successfully climbed Aphrodite's Ladder.

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~Bedroom Tip #35~ Strawberry-lation

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Strawberries and cream make for a very sensuous snack. This

technique takes it one step further.

Here's What You Need:

Four strawberries.

One can of non-diary whipped cream.

One knife.

Here's How You Do It:

Before you begin, cut the strawberries into quarter-inch slices from the

top down.

Get your woman naked. Have her lie on her back with her knees bent

and legs slightly apart.

Apply the whipped topping liberally around the lips of your woman's

vagina. Carefully press the strawberry slices into the whipped topping.

Now position your head directly in front of this sensuous feast. Using

your tongue, gently remove a slice of strawberry and "share" it with your

woman. Tease her by delicately licking around the vagina and clitoris.

Have fun alternating between eating the strawberries and pleasuring

your woman. Keep going until she erupts in a delicious orgasm.

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~Bedroom Tip #34~ Three Minute Foreplay

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One of the biggest complaints you hear from women is that they don't get

enough foreplay. They feel particularly slighted when they spend ten

minutes doing something for their man, like oral pleasuring, and then he

reciprocates with thirty seconds of the same for her. Here's a great way

to level the playing field.

Also, if your woman is shy about telling you exactly what she wants, this

makes it easy for her to show you.

Here's What You Need:

One egg timer (the hourglass is a little more romantic; but the kitchen

"dial" timer will do).

Here's How You Do It:

Get your woman naked. You, too. Tell her that you would like her to do

whatever she wants to you for three minutes, and that you're going to do

the exact same thing to her for the next three minutes.

Start the timer. Pay attention to what she's doing to you and exactly how

she's doing it. If she pleasures you orally, is she doing it hard or soft? If

she massages you, where and with how much intensity is she doing it?

Make mental notes of all of these things for the next three minutes. Then,

when it's your turn, try to duplicate what she did as precisely as you can.

Get in three or four rounds of this before you move on to intercourse --

and don't be surprised if she chooses to do something as simple as

holding you in her arms for the entire three minutes.

This technique has the ability to teach you more about what your woman

really wants than all the "chandelier-swinging" feats combined.

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~Bedroom Tip #33~ The Minnesota Mindbender

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Here's a technique that originated around the Twin Cities area. As it

grows in popularity, there could be a movement to change the state

slogan to, "The Land Of 10,000 Lays."

Here's What You Need:

A set of Vikings bed sheets are optional.

Here's How You Do It:

Get your woman naked. Have her lie on her back with her knees bent

and legs slightly apart.

Lie down on your stomach, perpendicular to your woman. Your head

should be positioned sideways above her vagina.

Using your thumb and forefinger, pull back the skin that hides the clitoris.

Moisten your lips and press them against both sides of her clitoris,

drawing it into your mouth.

Gently roll your lips inward, covering your teeth. At the same time raise

your head until her clitoris comes out from between your lips.

Repeat again and again as fast as you can. If you're applying the right

amount of pressure to her clitoris, you'll probably hear a little popping

sound when you open your mouth.

This one may take some practice. But, done correctly, it can easily

produce one leg-quivering orgasm after another.

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~Bedroom Tip #32~ Patio-gasm

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This is the female version of a technique for his pleasure called "The

Lounge Lizard" (#83). Since you've already got the chair set up, this

would be the perfect time for her to try that one on you.

Here's What You Need:

One webbed patio lounge chair.

Two pillows.

One roll of masking tape.

Here's How You Do It:

Adjust the back of the lounge chair to the upright position.

Place the pillows lengthwise directly under the chair.

Pull the center-most straps apart and tape them to the next-closest

straps, creating an opening in the chair about four or five inches wide.

Get your woman naked, or at least bottomless. Have her sit in the chair.

Her vagina needs to be directly over the opening that you've created.

Now get under the chair and lie on the pillows. Position your mouth

directly under your woman's vagina. Grip the outermost edges of the

chair, pull yourself up and pleasure your woman orally.

You can continue to do this until she has reached orgasm. Or, after a

few minutes, move on to the next step.

Position yourself so that your penis now lines up with her vagina. Place

both of the pillows underneath your buttocks.

Enter your woman and thrust away.

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~Bedroom Tip #31~ Flower-gasm

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You can't go wrong giving a woman roses. Here's a unique, romantic

technique that will touch her heart as well as a more erotic location on

her body.

Here's What You Need:

One thornless rose.

Here's How You Do It:

Get your woman naked. Have her lie on her back.

Hold the rose over her stomach. Glide the rose over your woman's skin

while simultaneously twirling it back and forth between your fingers.

Brush the rose over her breasts, cleavage, neck, face and arms. Move it

down her legs and let the rose tickle her toes. Finally, stroke your

woman's vagina with the rose until she's ready for something a little

more stimulating.

Now pull a single petal from the rose and place it on the tip of your

forefinger. Gently press the soft, silky rose petal to your woman's clitoris.

Imagine the numeral "8" laid on its side. That's the pattern you want to

trace with your finger on and around her aroused clitoris (the petal

should follow your finger).

Vary the patterns you trace, as well as the intensity with which you press,

until you find just the right combination to bring your woman to a

romantic, unforgettable climax.

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My Sweetheart---Romantic Lovely Poem For You--

So often when I am embracing you,
It seems that you exist in this world
only because of me and I exist because of you.

It's not easy to wander in this world
and not lose one's way,
but the greatest happiness of all
is in giving joy to one's beloved.

And if the king can have his throne,
and if the bird can have his Spring nest,
and God can have his heaven,
then I, my sweetheart, I can have you!

~Bedroom Tip #30~ Auto-erotica

Buenos días amigos de amor indulgente ~ Good Morning Love Indulgent Friends

There are a lot of cars out there with automatic sunroofs. Hopefully,

yours is one of them. If not, find an excuse to rent one for a day; it'll be

worth every penny.

Here's What You Need:

One car with a sunroof.

Here's How You Do It:

Park where nobody can see you and open up the sunroof. Since you've

got a radio within arm's length, put on some appropriate music.

Get your woman naked, or at least bottomless.

Have her climb up on the roof and sit on the back edge of the sunroof,

facing the hood (her feet can rest comfortably against the windshield).

Get into the passenger's seat and kneel, facing the trunk. Now raise your

head up between her legs. Using your mouth and tongue, pleasure her

like you never have before. Let her enjoy all the unique sensations: the

height, the danger, the smooth metal and glass against her bare skin

and your unique vantage point.

Fifty years from now, she'll still be talking about this one.

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My Princess, My Wife---Romantic Lovely Poem For You--

For My Dear Wife,
On This Usual Day;
I Write You This Poem,
In My Own Special Way.

I Wanted To Tell You,
In Words Of My Own;
You're The Most Precious Person,
That I've Ever Known.

You're The Prettiest Girl,
Than Any I've Seen;
Your Body Is Flawless,
So Slender And Lean.

Your Eyes Have That Sparkle,
That I Can't Live Without;
One Day Without Them,
And I'd Die There's No Doubt.

And I Just Lose Control,
When I Glance At Your Hair;
Those Curls Are Just Stunning,
So Perfect And Rare.

You're The Most Caring Person,
That I've Ever Met;
There's No One Like You,
And That I Can Bet.

What Attracts Me The Most,
Is Your Sweet And Kind Touch;
You're A Gift Sent From Heaven,
And I Love You So Much.

So Hold Me As Close,
As You Possibly Can;
'Cause Now And Forever,
I Am Your Man.

~Bedroom Tip #29~ The Spooning Turtle

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Here's a technique some say was made famous by legendary blues

musician Muddy Waters.

Here's What You Need:

One bottle of water-based lubricant.

Here's How You Do It:

Get your woman naked. You, too.

Apply a small amount of lubricant to your penis.

Have her lie on her side and snuggle up behind her. You know: the

classic "spooning" position.

With your woman's legs slightly open, insert the length of your penis

between the lips of her vagina. DO NOT insert yourself into her vagina,

but only between the lips.

Have your woman close her legs, surrounding your penis.

Now begin to thrust as if you were inside of her. The head of your penis

will move back and forth over her clitoris.

Continue thrusting until your woman sings anything but the blues.

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A Table Set For Two---Romantic Lovely Poem For You--

Candles flicker softly on a table set for two,
There's no one on the earth tonight except for me and you.

A nice romantic dinner and a bottle of chilled wine,
And we are here together in a moment stopped in time.

A love so few have ever known and this is its birth night,
Alone within our little world, you and I and candlelight.

So soon we will set free the feelings that we want to share.
And I am held here spellbound by your laughter in the air.

Thoughts of love like falling leaves,
Swirling in the autumn breeze,

Flow in our minds and in our eyes,
A tender look and longing sighs,

We touch and as the fire starts,
That we have kindled in our hearts,

We kiss and hear the angels sing,
As heavens gift to me you bring,

No more to live my life alone,
And in your soul I found my home,

At peace within your loving arms,
Captivated by your charms,

And happily I'd die for you,
Here at this table set for two.

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My Vow To You ---Romantic Lovely Poem For You--

When you are sad, I will dry your tears
When you are scared, I will comfort your fears
When you need love, my heart I will share
When you are sick, for you I will care

You will feel my love when we are apart
Knowing that nothing will change my heart
When you are worried, I will give you hope
When you are confused, I will help you cope

When you are lost, and can't see the light
My love will be a beacon, shining ever so bright
This is my vow, one that I pledge till the end
For you above all are my wife and best friend

These words I have written, speak of my love for you
From my lips these words spoken, shall always ring true
God has blessed me, and with your hand in mine
Both of our hearts, will forever intertwine

Into all lives, falls pain and sorrows,
I promise together, we will meet all tomorrows
Happy in marriage, honor and love
blessed in unity by God above

~Bedroom Tip #28~ The Sultry Sucker

Buenos días amigos de amor indulgente ~ Good Morning Love Indulgent Friends

This is a great technique that creates both a new and unusual bit of

stimulation for her, and a delicious taste treat for you.

Here's What You Need:

One round sucker on a stick, any flavor.

Here's How You Do It:

Unwrap the sucker and put it in your mouth. Make sure that it is

completely smooth, especially on the top. Sometimes you get an air

bubble or other imperfection in the sucker that, as it dissolves, forms a

sharp edge. If you discover such an edge, discard that sucker and get a

fresh one.

Get your woman naked. Have her lie on her back with her knees bent

and legs slightly apart.

Gently rub the sucker along the lips of her vagina. Use your mouth to

remoisten the sucker as needed.

Using your tongue, follow the path you've just traced with the sucker.

Enjoy the flavor while you begin to arouse your woman.

Put the sucker back in your mouth to remoisten.

Hold the sucker in the middle of the stick with your thumb and index

finger. Press it against your woman's clitoris and use your two fingers to

spin the sucker clockwise, then counterclockwise. Repeat this a few

times. Remember -- if it gets too dry, put it back in your mouth.

Now combine the spinning of the sucker with some good, old-fashioned

oral pleasuring. Your woman will be popping her tootsies in ecstasy.

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Keeper Of My Dreams

When you're not here to share my days and nights
My life is so incomplete
For you are my heart, my soul
The ‘oneness’ I had known to seek
Without you I merely exist from day to day
With you I know that I will find
All that I have been searching for
My completeness, my eternal peace of mind
You are the keeper of my dreams
The man who holds my heart in his hands
The one I want to spend my life with
The one with whom I will always stand
Stand beside through thick and thin
Through all that life will throw our way
Knowing that this special love we share
Will guide us, each and every day
This journey was started long ago
Before this time and place
The journey of completeness
As two hearts and souls embrace
Forever is what I want with you
For the search is at an end
Our hearts have found each other
As lovers, as soul-mates, as friends.

~Bedroom Tip #27~ Sue-Bliss

Buenos días amigos de amor indulgente ~ Good Morning Love Indulgent Friends

Here's a classic technique that's probably been done for thousands of

years. It definitely belongs in your "bag of tricks."

Here's What You Need:

One bottle of honey.

Here's How You Do It:

Get your woman naked. Have her lie on her left side.

Place a single drop of honey on her right ear lobe and another along her

hairline behind the ear.

Apply a small stream of honey all the way down her right side, from her

armpit to her ankle.

Beginning at the ear lobe, slowly and methodically use your tongue and

mouth to lick and apply gentle suction, removing the honey from her

entire right side.

When you're done, have your woman turn over. Do the exact same thing

to her left side.

Now have your woman lie on her back with her knees bent and legs

slightly apart.

Extend your tongue and squeeze a small amount of honey (about the

size of a nickel) onto the tip.

Pleasure your woman orally. When necessary, apply more honey to the

tip of your tongue.

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As Long As You're Near---Romantic Lovely Poem For You

The first time we met, I could see,
That you and I, were meant to be.
Your eyes were so gentle, your smile so true,
When you first held my hand, I just knew.
Now the time has gone by, through laughter and tears,
These days I shall cherish, for years upon years.
Those memories we have, shall never fade,
For those are the steps, that we have made.
That was the past, the future is near,
I anxiously wait, for what will appear.
New homes, more laughter, and children so dear,
Everything will be wonderful, as long as you're near

Happy New Year

Wishing you all a safe a wonderful, prosperous and enjoyable New Year..

Hello 2011.. Are you ready?!?!